Sunday, January 01, 2006


For some reason, they can't stand to be around you, so when you finally go somewhere else, they complain about that too. They don't give it up, But they complain when you look at X rated things. Also, they complain about you never seeing the kids, but then they say things like Why don't you go to work, or Can't wait for you to go back to work. Damned if you do, damned if you don't. I give up. Oh yeah, and I suck as a parent, whatever I say, I am wrong. Ugh. Women.

I am quiting smoking, have not smoked since work on Thursday the 22nd. So, I hope to not give in when a coworker offers a cig. My plant is supposed to ban smoking anyway (but for real this time, as opposed to the other three times).

Hello 2006!


Blogger Walking Contradiction said...

And no, this is not about that.

Sun Jan 01, 10:54:00 PM EST  
Blogger JUST A MOM said...

Matt I am proud of you and your stopping smoking. And look things will get better,,, just shut your mouth and follow orders. KIDDING well kinda,,, :) Really when you get old these thigns really do not matter. You look at what is realllllly worth getting upset over. I love you both, You both are great people, close your mouth and walk away before stuff comes out you don't want to. LOVE YOU!!!!

Sun Jan 01, 11:24:00 PM EST  
Anonymous Wifey-difey said...

I had to laugh at this. The part your hearing about is more of the Matt Drama I haer on a daily basis. I made a great effort to give in to him on a reg basis and he STILL found the need to cover our PC in nude women. I am sorry but when your married you gotta quit living like a frat boy. (this was 4/5 years ago) I have just learned to ignore the nasty photo's he feels the need to collect on our PC under the file name of "yankee's".
As far as the spending time with the kids then saying I wante him to go to work. UMMM YEP I said it. What I mean is PLAY with them, Read to them, Ya know spend time with them. Not just WATCH them while your watching you TV and get annoyed that they are fighting and you can't hear. I too fell like I can do no right EVER! What he doesn't say is how critical and obbcessive he is. I mean there is NOTHING done right for this man. He is the worlds BIGGEST pain in tha ASS!

So why you ask are we still married? Well because we DO LOVE each toher despite all of both of our faults. I have matt's back when he needs me. I TRY to make the sour puss happy as best I can. Although I seem to fail most of the time on that one. SO nayway there ya have the other side of the story.

Oh and thanks matt for putting out our dirty laudry for the world to read about.

MEN UGH!!!!!

Mon Jan 02, 02:24:00 AM EST  
Blogger JUST A MOM said...

Angi,,, Yes this can be such a pain in the ass. But hey know that the only ones that read this is teh ones who really care. NOW MR MATT!!!!!! You will get an ear full from me, adn I am sue a couple others about the little titty pages. You sir should be respecting the fact that you are married and a grown man now. Those things are reserved for loosers who can not see that that is someones daughter, some father has run across those and say,, OH MY GOD THAT IS MY DAUGHTER!!!! Thinkabout it,, 16 years from now could it be YOURS? AND WHY not they were good enough for you to look at. OK ENOUGH of that one.

OOOHHHH I so wish you guys lived closer, I would take those babies for a week and send you out into the desert. Not allowing you to come back untill you are all yelled out and seeing that the yelling is hurting and nobody learns anything from it, BUT FEAR!!!!(remember teh fear?) I am not here to judge,, I am here to say,,, MAN BEEN THERE DOEN THAT.... it sucks!!!! The saying of you hurt the one you love,, Is NOT such a good thing because after a while the hurt one turns away,, Have yo not taken teh hurt from others for way toooo long.

Care about you both too much to just shut up. BUT say the word and I will. Box is on the way by the way.LOVE YA GUYS!!!!! Hang in there...

Mon Jan 02, 03:26:00 AM EST  
Blogger Walking Contradiction said...

That was 5 years ago, geez. And yeah, never did I once say I am mature. Insert witty comeback here.

Thank you mom, for being here for me (us), and being who you are, it is appreciated, and just....thanks.

Mon Jan 02, 08:48:00 AM EST  
Blogger Just Help Me said...

oh listen my husband and i went thru the same shit when our twins were 2. it is a very stressful and difficult time. plus we had an older one too. unfortunatly we seperated for 8 months because the hurtful words got to be too much and i couldn't take it anymore. after 8 months of more therapy we got back together and jaye it right you need to pick your battles adn focus on what is really important. we all go thru it, there will be times where all husbands are asses and all wives are bithches but communication and love is the key. hey if we can make it you can too.

Mon Jan 02, 12:01:00 PM EST  
Blogger As always... Rachael said...

I just quit quitting smoking. Spark back up.. you seem tense! Try drinking in the mornings, that will help too. I'm full of good advice!

I've done my tour of duty on the porn argument. I really took it personally and it hurt my feelings. I swore up and down that it was a matter of loyalty, and had nothing to do with my feelings of security. I was fooling myself. My problem with porn was totally about my feelings of security. Let's face it, if I were getting laid 6 days a week, a few nudie pics probably wouldn't bother me.

I've gotten over the issue, and hubby has complied with my requests (I think!) I still don't like porn. I'm not jealous and I'm no longer insecure... but it's so impersonal it just seems wrong. I can't get over the fact that this is someone's daughter, mother, sister...

then one daymy husband asked me what I think about when I masturbate. That shut my ass up! I would have liked to say "you, honey" but I've never lied to him and I don't intend to start now.

Mon Jan 02, 01:35:00 PM EST  
Blogger ~Deb said...

Ah, women. Can't live with em'--can't live without em'! Now as far as the porn thing goes- and her complaining about it--why doesn't she just watch it with you?

My girlfriend and I always watch it together, and if I watch it alone--that's no big deal, vise/versa. Women get so intimidated by their mates watching sex other than having it with them. It's natural. They need to realize this. It's not considered "cheating" in my book. I know a lot of people will argue with this one.

In any case, I'm not your typical woman, but I can relate in many ways. I feel if your significant other cannot understand you- or won't try to at least, it all stems down to insecurity issues. I know a lot of women who are insecure and will complain about every little thing you do. Knit pickers. They're the worse. But you have kids involved, so you just have to play it by ear and be calm about it.

Sorry you're going through a rough patch.

I just wanted to wish you a Happy New Year!!!! Hang in there!

Mon Jan 02, 02:41:00 PM EST  
Blogger ~Deb said...

Oh and congratulations on quitting smoking! Take it ONE day at a time!!!

Mon Jan 02, 02:42:00 PM EST  
Blogger Kiki said...

I quit smoking today, so maybe we can be quit smoking buddies!! Support Group!!! :)


Happy New Year!

Tue Jan 03, 12:02:00 PM EST  
Blogger Lynda said...

Good job on the quiting!! I will make a deal with you. I won't take any chocolate cake a coworker bought for her birthday, and you don't take up the offer for a cancer stick if your coworker offers you any.

And I am staying out of the other stuff....

Tue Jan 03, 12:31:00 PM EST  
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Tue Jan 03, 05:02:00 PM EST  
Blogger JUST A MOM said...

MATTy where are you ??????????

Wed Jan 04, 10:41:00 AM EST  
Blogger JUST A MOM said...


Thu Jan 05, 11:03:00 AM EST  
Blogger Lynda said...

Ok, Jaye, after reading Val's comments and now Matt's, I know you must be a mom.


But seriously, where are you, Matt?

Thu Jan 05, 12:21:00 PM EST  
Blogger JUST A MOM said...

OH MAN,,,Lynda, I could NEVER PLAY POKER!!!!!!!! I am what ya see, I can not hide anything.

yes Matt and all are sick again,, I will just keep everyone up to date on everyone hahahahahahahaaa.

How am I doing?

Thu Jan 05, 06:08:00 PM EST  
Blogger JUST A MOM said...

TAG GO SEE,,,,, love ya :)

Thu Jan 05, 08:15:00 PM EST  
Blogger Lynda said...

Oh, that sucks! Hope you feel better soon, Matt and family!!

You are doing a great job, Just a Mom.

Fri Jan 06, 11:01:00 AM EST  
Blogger Kellie said...

I pretty much love any post where you and the wife argue- the best part is that we can all tell there is so much love- even in the every day moans and groans that come along with marriage!

Fri Jan 06, 12:09:00 PM EST  

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